This is my second born Ethan a few years ago, love that smile! This was taken after his first tournament as a little guy, and made me think of how nervous we were. Well, how nervous I was because I wanted him to have fun and not be disappointed if things didn’t go his way. While we will always be nervous for our kids at their first, second, or tenth martial arts tournament, there are ways to make it a stress-free and fun experience.
Below is a picture of me and my oldest son Trey at our first tournament together. He's missing his two front teeth because of the tooth fairy, not the tournament by the way. (And he's taller than me now!)
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Unless you are lucky enough to have a good tournament in your town, some travel will be required. You can make a weekend of it by heading out the night before tournament day and staying in a hotel close to the venue. This is helpful if you have to travel out of town more than a couple of hours. Most tournaments have an early check-in time and being close to the venue can keep your little karate kid from being tired before it even starts.
If you are like us, we usually make the drive the day of. In this case I advise you to pack your car the night before with your uniform, sparring gear, mouthpiece, whatever you need for your weapons kata, music for musical forms, directions, copy of your registration, and anything else your instructor wants you to take. I have actually had the ironed uniforms hanging on the front door ready to go, then realized an hour down the highway that they were STILL hanging on the front door. Not a fun way to start! The host school made a special trip to their school store to get our boys a couple of uniforms (very nice, thank you!) but it was a hassle I would have rather avoided. Not to mention we have our boys forever on video doing their forms with another school’s logo on their backs instead of our family’s school name and logo. Lesson learned!
Also pack a bag of cards, games, or a book to keep the kids and siblings busy in between divisions. There can be a lot of time spent waiting on their turn to come up which can wear on their nerves (and moms!). It can also help to envision themselves going through the moves of their kata or sparring technique during downtime.
Do you have any suggestions for a fun and stress-free tournament experience?